Using Your Intuition With Men And Dating
Using your intuition might be the best, and in some situations the ONLY, way that you’ll be able to see through all the external “behavior stuff” going on with a man and get to the truth of what’s really happening inside his mind and what his behavior is when you’re not around.
Like when a man plays hard to get, or he doesn’t call you much or initiate, or when a man gets close and then withdraws from you right after.
Why do men do this?
For each one of these I’ve got some interesting insights and theories that can help.
But…
From my perspective, there are some extremely important concepts that you need to understand before you can really “get” where a man is coming from or understand what his behaviors and issues are all about.
First, you need to build your foundation of understanding and make sure your own personal belief systems aren’t all mixed up. If they are, there’s no way for you to see the real “cause and effect” around you.
You’ll just see what your mind is fearful and afraid of, and it will only pick out and see what it knows from the past.
Which is usually is a result of a few things you’ve experienced before.
Including good relationships, bad relationships, pain, broken trust, destructive behaviors, etc…
Humans learn in all kind of fascinating ways, but not all of them produce decisions and conclusions that reflect the reality of what’s actually going on.
That’s why I find belief systems so fascinating. Our minds basically act as giant pattern recognition machines – which can either lead us to right or wrong conclusions and ways of perceiving our environment.
But let’s bring this back down to earth…
Do you know anyone women close to you who’ve had difficult relationships in the past?
And now they often have unfounded and negative fears about any man around them?
Their past experiences have had a huge impact on their personal beliefs and how they see themselves and the world.
Anyways, before I get even more off on a tangent-
I’ve got to get on with it, so I’ll need to give you abridged version. In other words, the very shortest route to get away from counterproductive thoughts and beliefs you might already have and onto positive results.
Get Inside The Mind Of A Man With FREE Membership to Catch Him and Keep Him by Christian Carter
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